Though, once aware of the traits
that make someone more authoritative, you can formulate a plan to improve upon
lacking areas and alter the behaviors preventing you from achieving management
and executive status.
Below, you’ll find a list of traits
that our sales and marketing headhunters look for in leaders, along with some
exercises to enhance your influence and responsibility at work.
Defining
the traits of leadership
1. Strength - Begin to carry yourself with poise and confidence. People
are drawn to confidence and shy away from nervousness, lack of authenticity and
insecurity.
How you feel about yourself will
dictate your ability to lead and command authority. Essentially, if you don’t
feel you’re important and deserving, don’t expect your co-workers to.
If you have come across as anxious
and unassertive with your co-workers in the past, don’t focus on these
shortcomings.
Your co-workers, like anyone else
will have a short memory and so should you. From now on, think of the prior
experiences as a learning tool rather than a future forecaster.
With that being said, here are some
exercises on how to increase self-confidence and perceived strength:
a.
Challenge the negative beliefs you have about yourself. Instead of focusing all
your energy on what you don’t like about you, give equal weight to all your
positive qualities.
b.
Focus on past successes rather than failures. Don’t mull over what you’ve done
incorrectly. It’s more productive to think about all the things you’ve done
right in the past. Reinforce these thoughts repeatedly.
c.
Stop always needing to be right. Understand there is nothing shameful about
past work mistakes.
d.
Stop looking to others for acceptance and happiness. Learn that you don’t need
anyone’s approval for your own self-confidence.
2. Positive Energy - Leaders show positive energy and optimism, showering
their people with a can-do attitude. This outlook draws co-workers to them and
paves the way for influence, respect and admiration from others. In terms of leadership, positive
energy has a multitude of benefits and is nothing short of a crucial component.When you’re positive, you think in
terms of solutions, not problems, you inspire risk taking, tend to be more
resilient and think more clearly.
Moreover, you are more assertive and
your candor allows for quicker, more open communication amongst the other
employees. This is the foundation of strong leadership.
3. Passion - Being passionate about your job means possessing a heartfelt,
deep and authentic excitement about work. This excitement is infectious and
naturally will draw others to your way of thinking.
People follow positivity,
effectiveness, intelligence and resiliency. All of which are byproducts of
loving what you do.
Until you learn to love work, you
can’t hope to display the necessary positive energy leadership requires.
Either proactively search for the
perfect employment or train yourself to become more passionate in your current
job. Regardless, make a firm decision to stay or leave and follow through with
it.
Here are a few ways how to increase
your passion for work:
a.
Increase your performance. Leaders do everything possible to increase the
effectiveness of their work. They put in the extra time and sincerely enjoy
what they do partly because others admire their efforts.
b.
Think about what is going right rather than obsessing about your problems.
Understand that no job is going to be perfect and create a reality that is more
upbeat and success focused.
c.
Stop focusing on what people “owe” you and begin focusing on what you can do to
standout.
4. Selflessness - Leaders are selfless. They are more interested in group
achievements as opposed to chasing their own goals.
By consistently pouring out encouragement, caring and recognition, your co-workers will become more drawn
to you. Regardless of whether or not you are management, take every opportunity
to inject self-confidence into those who earned it.
In
the end
Most significant things at work and
in life require work, study and most important, practice. Leadership is no
different. Understand that no one is born a leader. Rather, they decide to mold
themselves into one.
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